Despite widespread reports that there are growing numbers of children identifying as queer or gender expansive at younger ages, parents of queer children under seven are met with scarce resources and support. The taboo of talking about parenting young LGBTQ+ children in the face of intense social shaming, scorn and rejection is one I have personally experienced. I am the mother of a gay son and a nonbinary child both of whom came out at four. The uninhibited societal disapproval and disgust for parents who allow, their young children’s queer self-expression, is as pervasive as it is harmful. It contributes to the shame and isolated experiences of our queer children, and we know that this is a major factor in the higher rates of suicide and self-harm among queer youth. Drawing on a combination of research, clinical and personal experience, this workshop will provide information on developmental needs, parental resources, and tools to best aid adults supporting young queer children and their families. These will include handouts listing critical information every parent should know, and scripts for navigating the school systems (written by Jessica Hershel, co-author of I am Jazz, and reproduced with permission.)